Tokyo Blond Is Not Porn

Tokyo Blond is not a porn blog, about hair or even, as one pithy friend remarked, a micro beer or late 1980s glam metal band ("Dude, I just saw Skid Row and Tokyo Blond opened and played a killer set").


The purpose of this blog is to chronicle my experiences in Tokyo - poignantly, visually, irreverently - for fun.


Anybody can tag along...that is if I like you. This blog will endeavor to be entertaining and honest and frequent enough to keep those following interested including me.


Friday, July 20, 2012

Farewell My Concubine – Good-bye Tokyo


When Russell came into the kitchen announcing his assignment might be ending earlier than we expected, my first reaction was….”but I’m not ready yet. I haven’t finished my book!  We haven’t even gone to Kyoto yet.” A subtle kind of panic began creeping in, spreading slowly like sweet liquor burning down my throat.

It was a week before Christmas and Russell’s boss told him, “Don’t worry about it”; enjoy your vacation.” Don’t worry about it?!!!  That was right before we left for Australia. Nice.

Three months later and three job offers to be considered, I found myself packing up the Tokyo apartment in a daze.  We had made the most of the time we had left.  Perhaps you read about it.  Besides Australia, we went to Hokkaido, Hakone and Kyoto, even Bali before we packed it in, literally.

I had no regrets, other than leaving before expected.  We did more in the almost two years we lived in Tokyo than most expats who have lived there for several years. I had stayed true to my blog, posting at least once a week.  We had pretty much crossed everything on our Japan wish list off, except for Hiroshima and Okinawa.  We had hanami-ed like there was no tomorrow. There wasn’t. We had made some good friends, including Japanese.

Those friends and the experiences we shared, not to mention the earthquake and tsunami, have changed us for the better and those changes will linger forever, like the ghosts of Christmas past.

Standing in the empty apartment, the floors gleaming and shiny, the walls bare and promising, seemed so familiar.  Familiar because it was 18 months ago I had stood there waiting for boxes to be delivered.

Ranger was expectant.  He could sense the change.  He was tense with anticipation.  I put his leash on one last time for our final walk in the park we had gone to almost everyday we had lived in Japan.  “Take a good long whiff”, I encouraged Ranger, “it will be your last of Tokyo.”

The park was vibrant with Spring.  The clouds of sakura had cascaded away the week prior and only the very last blooming petals still clung to the trees.  The turtles were finally out in number, sunning themselves on the muddy banks of the pond. 

We saw the Great White Pyrenees in his usual spot, holding court in the central yard.  I bowed my familiar greeting to his owner, she bowed back, as usual.  As usual, Ranger bristled.  He never cared much for that big white dog. 

As we crossed the traditional Japanese bridge, Ranger charged the group of pigeons clustered hopefully on the bridge, pandering for a handout.  He never liked those birds much either.  Behind us a clamor erupted.  We both turned around, surprised.  To our astonishment a bird of prey was diving down from the trees and had snagged a pigeon in mid air.  But it was the screeching of a concerned crow that had caught our attention.  Apparently the pigeon must have been a friend of this crow because the crow was dive-bombing the hawk as it struggled to bring the pigeon to the ground. 

Well, you don’t see that every day.  In fact I never saw that in this park, ever! And I’ve been coming to this park for almost two years.  The very first day Ranger and I came to this park, we stopped at the entrance to read the various signs, most of them warning foreigners what they can’t do.  One of the signs illustrated all of the varieties of birds that reside in the park.  They were organized in a pyramid, depicting the order of the food chain.  At the top of the food chain was a bird of prey.  That first day I made a goal to try to glimpse all of the birds on the sign.  I had managed to see all of them except one: the bird of prey.  That is until today, my final day in Tokyo.  How strange is that? It must be a sign.

Ranger and I looked at each other.  The hawk descended to the ground and started pulling the pigeon apart.  Nobody else, not the old fishermen, nor the young mother with her stroller, seemed to notice what had just happened, or the carnage still going on. It was as if it happened just for us.

We walked back to the empty apartment slowly, our last image of Tokyo reverberating, like a secret shared between us.

I wondered if Ranger would miss Tokyo.  I know I would. I would miss so many things.

*The exquisite food, I’m ruined for life. 
*The amazing juxtaposition of old and new.
*The polite, reserved nature of the Japanese people, their easy humor.
*The haunting 5pm chimes.
*The smell of Summer; the chill of Fall
*BBQing on the tiny Smokey Joe with real charcoal
*Snow on tiled roofs
*Perfect fish
*Seasonal vegetables and delicacies
*Wine on the rooftop garden and the bats
*The Toto toilets; ah yes the toilets; we must buy one when we settle back in the States
*The sakura, most of all the sakura, reminding us that life is fleeting

Fleeting………

Thank you Japan.

The adventure continues…..




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